When a Dallas couple does well in business, they will often have difficulties in divorce. That is because it can be difficult to divide significant assets such as a business between the spouses when the end of a marriage arrives.
Things are not always what they appear to be. Before a couple married in 2009, the husband — a U.S. citizen originally from Turkey — agreed with his immigrant bride that there would be no alimony in the event their marriage ended in divorce.
One of the most uncomfortable, yet important, topics for newly engaged or married couples is money. This could be why it remains one of the top reasons that couples here in Texas and elsewhere divorce. This is also why many people immediately think of divorce when they hear about prenuptial (before marriage) or postnuptial (after marriage) agreements.
Marriage is by definition a contract. When someone enters into that relationship in Texas certain rights and expectations follow. To further clarify what rights and obligations a couple might expect is something that can be framed through a carefully crafted prenuptial or postnuptial agreement.
There is nothing that says that a couple planning a prenuptial agreement must do it with the help of an attorney. But there is an old adage that goes something like, "A man who is his own lawyer, has a fool for a client."
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder goes the saying. The same could also be said about the view one holds about prenuptial agreements. Many in Texas may pooh-pooh even the thought of such documents saying that they presume divorce and that if you think that way, it will happen.
Setting the stage for a positive marriage relationship is something that takes work and it's work that experts generally agree should be done before the exchanging of vows. Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements can reflect that positive work, as we observed in our last post.
Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements are a real downer. That's not a fair view to take of these legal documents, but we would venture to say that it is the perspective many in Texas hold of them. The reason that such a take on these kinds of agreements is misguided is that it fails to reflect that they can have a positive influence on a marriage partnership.