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Can mediation really help us with our divorce dispute?

On Behalf of | Jun 24, 2017 | Divorce |

Divorce is naturally a complex process from both an emotional and a financial standpoint. If you and your spouse struggle to see eye to eye on matters such as property division, this only makes matters challenging.

However, even in the most amicable of divorces in Texas, you and your spouse may still run into some hiccups. Perhaps you have agreed on most areas of dispute, but there are still a couple of issues that you are having trouble resolving. In this situation, you and your spouse may benefit from a process known as divorce mediation.

What exactly is mediation?

Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution that allows you and your spouse to take part in a negotiation process that a neutral third party facilitates. In mediation, the third party does not do any decision-making.

How do I know mediation is best for me?

Mediation is an ideal option for you and your future ex if you want a process that is hands on, structured and short term. Your third party will supervise your and your spouse’s exchange of information and help with the bargaining process. The goal of your mediator is to assist both parties with finding common ground.

You can also expect your mediator to help you to address any expectations that are simply unrealistic. In addition, this party may provide some unique solutions for you that you and your spouse may not have considered.

Benefits of mediation

A huge benefit of mediation is that it is a faster process than going to trial, and therefore, it is comparatively inexpensive. The procedures dictating mediation are also much simpler than those for formal litigation.

Another advantage of mediation is that it is often less stressful than litigation, which is especially ideal if children are involved in the divorce proceeding. Furthermore, if you have children, by mediating a divorce, you and your spouse get to practice working out issues on your own outside of court, which you will eventually have to do as co-parents after you finalize the divorce.

A qualified attorney in Texas can help you to pursue your best interests at all stages of the mediation process when dealing with areas of dispute ranging from asset distribution to alimony and even child custody.

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